Harry L. Osborne Jr., 89, who was a retired worker at Tinker U.S. Air Force Base and was a former worker at the Oklahoma City, OK Federal Veterans Medical Center, died on Nov. 11.   Harry Lane Osborne Jr. was born on July 21, 1931, to Harper L. Osborne.  Mr. Osborne served with the U.S. Army in the Korean Conflict and the Vietnam War, and was awarded the Purple Heart Medal, Korean Service Medal with two Bronze Star and the United nations Service Medal.  Mr. Osborne was a deacon at the Ethiopia Coptic Church of Christ.  Ella Osborne, Mr. Osborne's wife, died some time ago.  Mr. Osborne is survived by three daughters: Barbara Osborne Lewis, Vera Osborne and Priscilla Tipton.  Also, he is survived by two step daughters, Olivia Jones and Copenia McAfee.    Another survivor is a son, Harry L. Osborne III.  Other survivor's are 19 grandchildren, 31 great grandchildren and a great great grandson.